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    Energy is Everything (Inspired by Black Panther)

    Posted On 03/04/2018

    Disclaimer: If you haven’t seen the movie Black Panther yet, this post does make reference to the movie (obviously). However, it doesn’t contain any plot spoilers.

    Disclaimer #2: This isn’t a science lesson. I promise.

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    After becoming king of Wakanda, we find T’Challa (Black Panther) and his teenage sister Shuri in a room full of advanced technology developed by Shuri herself. Shuri explains to T’Challa that his new and improved Black Panther suit is not only bulletproof, but it absorbs and stores the energy from any hits, bumps or falls he may take. The stored energy can then be released and used to help him defeat his adversary. The Black Panther uses this feature of his suit several times throughout the movie.

    So what does the Black Panther’s suit have to do with anything?

    Well, I’m glad you asked.

    As humans, we take a lot of hits, bumps, and falls and they aren’t always in a physical sense. We have to deal with toxic people, unemployment, underemployment, the death of loved one, overdue bills, disappointment, failed relationships, loneliness, and rejection just to name a few. Many of us take all that life throws at us with a smile. We bounce back from situations in the blink of an eye. To the world, we come across as bulletproof. We’re unbothered or we’re ‘fine’. Although the hits may not damage us physically, at times we are prone to carrying around the negative energy with us on the inside. Eventually, that energy is released back into the world in some form.

    While the Black Panther has a handle on the energy surrounding him, many of us mere mortals do not. We have to be mindful of the energy we accept, store and release.

    Accepted Energy 

    Although the Black Panther is prepared for battle, he never truly knows when he might have to fight. We may be prepared for what life may bring, but we can’t control everything that happens to us. We can control who and what we allow into our space.

    In order to reach and maintain the quality of life that we want, we have to be intentional about the energy we accept. I’m a firm believer in the statement “what you allow, is what will continue.” If our life isn’t going the way we want it to, we have to take the time to evaluate why. Oftentimes, our biggest downfall is our failure to remove people and situations from our lives that bring more negative energy than positive energy.

    Stored Energy

    Toxic people and situations may not seem like a big deal. However, if we aren’t careful, we can subconsciously start to take on the weight of the negativity surrounding us. If we walk around holding on to the negative perspectives that others have of us, then we start to believe it. The thoughts we have about ourselves determines how we interact with the world. The energy we store in our mindset is the energy we use to make decisions. If we use the positive thoughts as fuel for our future, then our stored energy can drive us wherever we desire to go.

    Released Energy 

    WE HAVE TO RELEASE THE ENERGY WE STORE (for the people in the back)

    Energy can only be stored for so long before it has to be released. When it comes to positive energy, we should release it freely and frequently. As for negative energy, we have to be careful how and when we release it.

    For example, during a thunderstorm, it’s possible that we may experience a power surge. A tv that is plugged into an outlet may be damaged because the amount of electric energy it receives during a power surge is more than the tv is equipped to handle.  It’s okay to be strong, but strength doesn’t mean we keep everything inside of us. We often see people reach their breaking point because they failed to let go of the negative thoughts and experiences they had in the past. They end up like a broken tv after a power surge because they kept holding on to the negative energy they should have released a long time ago.

    Releasing negative energy is necessary. There are many healthy ways to release negative energy. Praying, talking to someone, crying, writing and working out are a few options. Unlike the Black Panther, we don’t have to release all of our energy at once. It is a process.

    A little transparency and a challenge

    The past few months of my life haven’t exactly been the greatest. I’ll admit, there are some days that I’ve released more negative energy than positive energy. I realized that I need to get back on track. As a result, I am now making a better effort to seek and embrace the positive aspects of my life. I’m on a personal journey to use positive energy to power my life. In order to do that, I’m making a challenge for myself.

    1. I will make sure that I surround myself with positive people. I’ll also ignore gossip and negative conversations.
    2.  I’m taking inventory of the thoughts I’m carrying around with me. I’m creating positive affirmations to counteract the negative thoughts.
    3. I’m finding a way to release the positive energy inside of me and a healthy way to release the negative energy.

    I challenge anyone reading this to do the same.

    -Kymmie

    Energy cannot be created or destroyed. It can only be transferred or changed from one form to another.

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    The Importance of Aligning your Habits, Goals, and Intentions

    Posted On 01/07/2018

    Habits?  Goals? Intentions?

    Is there a difference? YES! Do I want to spend my time explaining the difference? ABSOLUTELY NOT! Here’s my brief interpretation.

    Intentions: The why behind your goals and the feelings associated with the process of achieving your goals

    Goals: Long-term results (tangible, measurable)

    Habits: Daily routines that influence your ability to achieve your goals and intentions

    Now that I’ve explained the difference, here are my intentions, goals, and habits for 2018.

    My intentions for 2018

    My word for 2018 is INTENTION. I want every decision I make to relate to my intentions in some way.

    • I will serve God.
    • I will be happy
    • I will be successful
    • I will be educated
    • I will love myself
    • I will be healthy
    • I will have quality/healthy/meaningful friendships
    • I will be relaxed
    • I will be wealthier
    • I will be creative
    • I will be SIMPLY KYMTASTIC

    My goals for 2018

    Rome wasn’t built in a day, so I’m not trying to build my whole empire in 2018. This is simply the foundation.

    • I will lose 20 pounds
    • I will post three blog posts a month.
    • I will read six books.
    • I will attend one social/networking event a month
    • I will develop my business plan
    • I will secure two freelance gigs or guest posts
    • I will create one stream of supplemental income

    My Habits for 2018

    Starting today, I will be participating in the 7 Virtues Challenge along with a few lovely ladies from the See Jane Write community. It takes 21 days to form a habit and hopefully at the end of the next 21 days,  I will have a routine formed.  Below are 7 habits I would like to form and an brief explanation for each.

    I will wake up at 5 am.

    I’m a teacher so early mornings aren’t that far-fetched for me. I currently wake up a 6:30 and somedays I may not even get out of bed until 7. By waking up earlier, I can write, check emails, cook breakfast, exercise, or meditate. Adding an extra hour and a half to my day will increase my productivity.

    I will get 7 hours of sleep each night.

    Sleep is important to me, but sleep is also a struggle for me. My main issue with sleep is that I have a hard time turning my brain off. I’m up thinking about ideas and what I’m going to do the next day. I will need sleep in order to have enough energy to make it through each day, especially since I’m waking up at 5am.

    I will drink at least 64 ounces of WATER.

    I’ve purchased a 64-ounce water bottle to get me started and that’s working pretty well. I love water, but I also love juice and soda. I’ve gone without soda before, however, I’ve slipped back into drinking soda almost every day. I have not had a sip of soda in 2018 and I don’t miss it. As far as juice goes, I’ll limit my intake.

    I will read at least one chapter in my book.

    My mentor Javacia always says that good writers read good writing. I’m a high school reading interventionist so naturally reading is a large part of my day. I also spend time reading for information when it comes to blogging. Reading for fun and enlightenment should be incorporated into my everyday life.

    I will write.

    I’ll admit, I don’t like to write (but I have a blog. Go figure)  Most of my blog posts are written the day before they are posted. If I write daily, I’ll have more time to refine my writing before it’s published. I also have a few journals that I plan to use to help me express my creative side.

    I will eat 3 BALANCED meals.

    This will probably be the hardest for me because I have a love-hate relationship with food.

    Some days I eat 3 meals, some days I only eat once and it might not be anything substantial.  Part of it is that I don’t take the time to plan what I eat and the other part is that I don’t like to cook. I WILL plan my meals ahead of time and make better choices if I choose to eat out.  I’ve become more mindful of what I eat, but I still have a long way to go.

    I will work out for 30 minutes.

    I don’t mind exercise. I just don’t make time in my day for it. Once I build up my stamina again and I’ll be fine.

    Bouns: I will limit my social media use.

    This habit came about when I lived in the mountains for two months last summer with limited cell phone service. It carried over into my everyday life. This is a little more tricky because the way that I use social media has changed over the past year. I found that by deleting the Facebook app off of my phone, I’m less likely to check my phone in general. Instagram, Snapchat, and Twitter are a different story because using those sites on anything other than a phone isn’t a feasible option. This is more about limitation than elimination. I can spend my time working on my other habits instead of scrolling through my news feed.

    Your goals, intentions, and habits have to be in alignment

    Goals, intentions, and habits all rely on each other.

    For example, I can say I want to lose 20 pounds, but if I don’t eat properly, rest, or work out consistently, it won’t happen. If I work out, drink more water, and eat balanced meals, I’ll be healthier. I’ll also happier because I won’t be sick as much. If I’m not sick, I won’t have to spend money at the doctor or on medication.  As a result, I’ll be wealthier. It’s a domino effect.

    Your intentions should drive your goals and your habits should create a lifestyle that is conducive for your intentions and goals to manifest.

    2018 is not just about making empty resolutions, it’s about a lifestyle change. I’m taking the momentum from 2017 to make this year Simply Kymtastic.

    Final Thought:

    DO or DO NOT, there is no try. -Yoda

    What are your intentions for 2018? What goals do you have set for yourself? What habits do you want to form? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

     


    To follow my journey through the 7 virtues challenge, check out my Instagram. I’ll be posting daily updates.

    I’ll share my recap of my 7 Virtues Challenge January 28th. Subscribe to my blog to receive updates on my next blog posts.

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